that most men cannot handle 'intelligent, independent, successful' women...my male friends tell me that's the case...why...oh... why,why,why!!!
why r men so intimidated by their women colleagues....why is it so difficult to accept the fact that women can also be career oriented and do as good or maybe better then most of the others...why is being ambitious and assertive a vice for a lady but a virtue for a man???
why r men so wary of women with intellect when it comes to relationships...why is the feeling of being in control so important to men...
why...oh... why,why,why!!!
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hi udita ,
u r so right abt egotistic men....i think u r the best one to judge men.
i do not think u r stubborn....atleast not with me......
we been knowing each other for the past 5 yrs i consider to be a very strong girl with a very possitive mind set.
i like the way you R.
KEEP IT UP let the men folk get more more 'J' Men Evy...Woman Pride
Oh .. boy ..... what a statement .... we can sit down for days together and start discussing ... and still we would not have gotten any answer ....
but lets start with a magnanimous comment ...
Not all men are like that .....
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some are much worse
may be we can try to see the reason as to why some of them should be like that ..
for that we have to take a Internal Course on a "Brief History of Time"
During the vedic times, for the best of reasons ...
modern improvements were not existing ...
having the physical limitations of women in mind, a division of labor was created ..
men go out and get bread
women sit at home and act as a domicile facilitator
she started to concentrate on her daily activities, she din notice day has passed and night came and her lifetime has passed.... she din even realize that her domicile became her world and that became her 6th sense....
As the one of the key persons to defy God by eating the "Fruit of knowledge" the curse bestowed on him made him learn all his vices - he thought "wow .. this is great. I go out get bread.. come back .. and I'm taken care of by the lady of the house" ...the cursed vice made men to evolve his 6th sense taking for granted that "women sit at home and acts as a domicile facilitator and answerable for all the other avenues apart from bread winning" (this is the curse bestowed upon her for eating the "fruit of Knowledge")- women are made for that ....
come 21st century ... women made lots of effort to break the curse .. and by far have succeeded impressively... the success of her made him re-question his 6th sense ... however, men, are not ready for the change as they are loosing the pampering, and the fact at times he might be in a position to answer... a very dark, new and scary place for him to be ... and that is why he is not ready to accept that women too can go out and get bread...because, then he has to start to take care of himself ... boo .. he thinks this is a life of Halloween for him....
So please lets not blame the men cannot handle intelligent, independent, successful who have women colleagues ....
blame the "Brief History of Time"
heyyy...thats not right...men can handle womens who are intelligent and successful....its right that women can also be career oriented...n they should be....infact there are womens who are great business leaders....but to keep a good relationship going both men n women have to compromise and understand each other...
Well.. I read your post..and also the comments...
First of all.. lets QUIT making excuses for the men. Yea yea.. vedic philosophy etc etc... but its time that these men GREW UP.. and looked around them !
Women are presidents, prime ministers, CEOs, party leaders, if some men still want to live as CAVE MEN.. then all they deserve are CAVE WOMEN.
Second of all.. I agree with one of your commenters.. NOT ALL MEN ARE LIKE THAT...
And I know a lot of men who are TOTALLY turned on by successful/intelligent/independent women.. In fact, they are the ONLY kind of men I know ( I choose not to associate with men who can't handle that type.. umm.. or maybe they choose not to associate with me ;) )
In any case, why should we waste time wondering "WHY" they can't handle it. They're not the demographic you should be concentrating on anyway..
Trust me.. you can..and you WILL do better ;)
yours,
ci.
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