Monday, September 17, 2007

Thoughts amidst a bout of loneliness....

Came across these lines today...

***
A doubting mind
Is forced to live
In the prison of loneliness.
***

This set me thinking...could this be the reason for me feeling lonely time n again...

It's a fact that i don't trust people easily...but how can one who has been betrayed again n again go ahead and trust people blindly...

And then i think that i will not be alone forever...there will be time for love again...God enters the darkest rooms...

Beneath my smiles, laughter and cheers, there is a person inside that fears
Of being lonely and not having anybody

...i guess its one of those days again...

Saturday, September 8, 2007

Are feelings for real...

how often have we seen our relationships becoming distant b'coz of physical distance. I often wonder if our feelings are hostage to our physical being...is physical proximity essential to sustain any relationship?

sometimes we feel so close to people that we no longer need speech to communicate...a look is enough to convey our thoughts and emotions and then when the same person moves to a different city and is away from us we are at a loss for words and no longer know what to say, a kind of awkwardness sets in...and with time the feelings die a natural death...


is everything transient...can we ever hold on to our emotions and capture them for a lifetime...or is it prudent to just bask in the sunshine of love till it lasts...


...i'm still looking for an answer to this question...maybe i think too much...

Tuesday, September 4, 2007

Is it true....

that most men cannot handle 'intelligent, independent, successful' women...my male friends tell me that's the case...why...oh... why,why,why!!!

why r men so intimidated by their women colleagues....why is it so difficult to accept the fact that women can also be career oriented and do as good or maybe better then most of the others...why is being ambitious and assertive a vice for a lady but a virtue for a man???

why r men so wary of women with intellect when it comes to relationships...why is the feeling of being in control so important to men...

why...oh... why,why,why!!!